Magnetic Personality 💜

Hey its Wizardhere💜

Take a magnet and place it in the centre. Then put some pins around it . You will see how the pins are attracted towards magnet automatically. Magnet is fixed in a place its not going anywhere but still attracting. Now what you need to do is to keep wooden circle between the magnet and pins. Pins will not be attracted anymore. 

So, the Personality Issue which I am going to highlight is very important. You we created in such a way that we attract things and people towards us. We all have that power to attract anything. But there is one thing which can turn off our "Attracting Power". And We will no more be able to attract anything.

We are like "MAGNET".

People and things are like "Pins".

But that wooden circle is our "DESPERATION".

Desperation is actually a constant need of validation and attention from others which makes us clingy and needy all the time. This is something which is not good at all for a well being. Some common signs of a desperate person are:

•Being available all the time to everyone.

•Seeks attention all the time

•Extremely clingy

•Go above and beyond to get validation from other people

•His happiness depends upon others

Nobody, I repeat nobody wants to be around someone who is clingy, needy or desperate (except narcissist and toxic people because they feed on their energy).

Desperation go Off with Self-Love. When you consider your own self , worthy of all the love you are constantly giving to others. When you stop being constantly available to others because you know that you come first and you gonna show up for yourself first. When you realize validation from others isn't necessary , its your validation that matters. When you stop being clingy to people out there and give that energy to your self care(physical, mental and spiritual). When you believe that your very existence is enough to attract beautiful things and people towards you. When you dont need people to tell you "You are beautiful" or "You are doing Great". When you don't compare yourself to others because you know everyone is unique in their own way. When you dont compromise on your dignity to stay close to people you want to , because you know they are draining you.

I Promise you! When you stop being desperate for people and things , they will automatically come to you, and then you gonna wonder "For such trivial things I was so desperate?" If they don't come? Honey!Its noy your fault, you have a Magnetic Personality. Only those people and things are having "Iron deficiency" in them. You will continue to attract beautiful things. 💜