Learn to love your child unconditionally no mater the condition

Ladies (Single mothers) I will like to share an issue that is a growing concern to me.

HOW On Earth will you be ashamed of your own child.

I watched a movie of a lady who gave birth to her "embecile" child and she hated 😔the child so much that anything that had to do with that child was a taboo.

She refused to educate the child in school even when the grandmother or someone else opted she refused saying she doesn't want people to know she has such a child.

She went as far as attempting to kill the said child because I boyfriend said he will never marry her with such a child.

This story realate to most of us today... Some of us have children have children with disability challenges

Some are sick "sicle cell" ... name the rest.

for one reason or the other we are ready to sacrifice these children for some futile reasons.

Note should be taken than before God formed us in our mothers womb, he knew us by name and has plans for us which are plans of good and not of evil ... At such, God also have plans for these children.♥️

If I should tell you the ordeal I went through went I gave birth to my child then you will understand that God is not man and he is faithful.

For those who comes from alamadum knew how my child was referred to as an "Obanje" and was supposed to be returned to the river bank so that he can joint his friends.

You could count his Bones and his eyes were so frightening.

With the support of my mother and grand mother we persisted and stayed steadfast until one day one mother told me...... "I know tin way di worry ya pikin bring me one liter red oil and white mimbo ask ya big Mami if yi get country pot with 25frs a go cook yi medicine for "Ndoro"......

When the above Items were provided and the medicine made it took my child just 2 weeks and he was fully recovered.

Tody he is a healthy and intelligent boy in secondary school.♥️

When my child was 6 years I met a man call Afunue and he told me I want to marry you but on the condition that your child will never visit our home I will give him whatever he want but let him stay far with your mom .... Trust me I felt so depressed but it was a room for me to double the hustle and make value for myself and my child. And you can do even better....

This is not just a story but an encouragement message to all the women who feel frustrated with the situation they are going through due to one situation or the other please don't give up .

I know it comes with psycho trauma expire but just push a little more and u will smile.😊

Forget all the downgrading words that are used online against single parents that ohhhh I can never marry a woman that has a child already they are just trying to put in you the spirit of low self esteem you can still have the best man out there with your child...

For our youngsters.... please and please avoid early pregnancy when you are not ready to face the challenges that come with it. Learn from our errors and plan a better life for yourself and they children you would want to have in future.

Disability Rights Fund - Women With Disabilities Taking the Lead

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