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Breastfeeding a Delima for Mother's



I cant personally remember how many years I sucked my mother's breast before I was winned out, I did also resolved I will not ask my mother, in case it turned out I was among the ones who over sucked? Ha

As the first born of the family, I think that would never happened to me. ( I mean the over sucked child). The reason been that as first child your mother quickly winned you out to make way for your siblings.

It's still the same routine with today's mother's, I wonder why we must allow society to dictate to us how we raise our kids, especially the length and duration of breastfeeding we give them.

When I decided to do exclusive breastfeeding with my girl, come and see the comments thrown as stones to me. I had to asked myself Biko(please) is the breast yours or mine?

A friend whose mother literally walked to my home to advice me about my breastfeeding of my girl shocked the Dem out of me. Up to date I have tried to apprehend how she was able to gather such courage to visit me to discuss me and my daughter. And she did came

Well, the fact that in Africa we are each other's keeper does guarantee such controlling attitude. Breastfeeding study or research have prove that it's very highly important because of its nutritional value for the kids. In past years, when a woman have her first child, the first yellowish breast milk is suckled and thrown away because our senior citizens thinks it's bad for the kid. This is now contrary, science say rather it's the most nutritional of all the types of the breast milk. It's after the yellowish milk then comes the creamy milk.

Mostly, we are asked to do six months exclusive. It's means only breast milk only and only for your baby, even no water can be supplement. This is where a lots of mother's finds it daunting, to obey or not to obey? Should I denied my baby water, the source of life?

There has been a lots of situations when the mother refuses to denied the baby water and all is success, whilst others did also did the exclusive with challenge's. However, we are asked to do the exclusive no matter what. After, the six months exclusive you can now combine water and breast milk for your baby.

I personally determined my duration for the breastfeeding, people can say what they think but at the end it's me who wears the shoe. It's between six months to two years, so you can choose within. A year, a year and have or if the two full years is what you want it should also be fine. Now, half a year is added to the two years and it's two years and a half.

If in case of any abnormalities feel free to contact your health service advisory or advisors. Happy Breast feeding week to all mother's

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