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I believe seeing and inheriting the kingdom of God is to one who is totally dedicated and obeys God’s requirements, especially to men of God “pastors.” But when you see and hear whatever they do one wonders if truly they are true servants of  God.

A pastor in one of our local churches I know of befriends ladies from his own church in a funny way.  He befriends married ladies whose husband’s stay away from their spouses.  What he does, he gives ladies special treatments like elders of the church, watching over them whom to win.  By the end of  his obligations, he makes sure that he wins  one. Every time he spends most of his time  frequent visits and special outings.  Remember, the husband is away while doing so and this pastor is married.  His wife watches and says nothing whenever she sees all the habits and infact, should you talk  about his husband (pastor), she becomes annoyed and church members wonders how and why.

The relationship becomes so sweet till the woman whose husband stays away divorces his husband and infact in the presence of her parents and so far, in the church.  Pastor ensures that the two have divorced in the present of both parents in the church.  He makes sure that his new ‘lover’ takes her children from his husband and leaves the him totally to zero spouse.

When this relationship continues, people watches over them slowly by slowly with no say at all.   The lady becomes sick slowly by slowly and then chronic.  As time goes by, this pastors treats her so much better by taking her to very expensive hospitals and with special treatments.  No one to pay her a visit even his own church members, and should you do so, pastor has to be informed, thus, an appointment has to be done.

So, the trend continues till her new lover dies.  Special funeral arrangements and her parents are treated much better too and with special promises. Ones the lady is buried, all the promises made are never fulfilled.

Believe me right, two ladies have died unanimously and have been buried while in relationship with this pastor  and as am sharing this, another lady is on the line-up and recently she divorced his husband who stays Nairobi.  People  wonder why ladies in his relationship don’t survive.

So many people and church members have  tried to streamline her but all was in vein. I decide to be bold and being among the guiding and counsellors in the church and the community, I went secretly and boldly to the lady  who is a nurse and explained to her how dangerous this man is ‘pastor’ for the good and security purposes of her life.  Pastor hated me to the brim. I did not give up instead went on and on till I won the lady to leave him or else, she dies.  Finally, she complied and left despite having been hated by pastor to date.