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I don't fit in, this is too much for me. They look better than me, so I am not the perfect fit. That voice will never go away if you keep allowing it to stay there, as It's All In Your Head

When you're given the stage to bring out the best that is in you, and you look at the crowd and you look at yourself and think that you're not the one they would want to see because you don't look good enough and that you don't belong there, that is never going to change unless you change it yourself because you know what? It's All In Your Head

The kids have so much being around you. They see so much in you and tell you that they want to be like you someday. They see you for who you are, but you see yourself for what the lies in your mind tells you that you are. So you push them away and say that you're not the best person to be with. They don't understand why you don't see just how happy and peaceful they are when they're with you. The hurts you cause them by pushing them away and the chances you're denying them from believing in others. You will never that, because, It's All In Your Head. And only you can change that because they world already believes in you, and you need to believe in yourself, until then, It's All In Your Head


About the poem, It's All In Your Head describe some of the challenges I've been fighting emotionally, and all the time I've allowed myself to believe that I have nothing to give to anyone, in not good enough, I am not beautiful, I don't have a college degree, I am ugly, I am fat, I am this and I am that. And the truth is, I didn't just come out of the clear blue sky to make these things up. It was actually because of what I went through going up as a child, and even as a teenager and adult. The hurts, the rejections, the abandonment, the loneliness, the struggles of life. Those are things I lived, and so I felt them as it seems so real.

I know that if not all of us on here, but many of us have experience some kind of trauma and hurts in our own different ways, and so we have felt (or might still feel) the way I've felt (or could be feeling). And we're not wrong to feel like that okay. We're human and we got hearts and blood and flesh and that means, we can feel things and experience things, whether good or bad. We have emotions and most of the times, our emotions are driven by what we go through.

But I've come to let each of us know that we're not what our situations took out of us. If we've been abandoned at such young stag or through other stages in our lives, we're not the cause for that. We can't make people love us and accept us if they don't want to. We can't control how others think about us or how they treat us. If we have made mistakes in the past, we're not our mistakes. If bad things happen to us, that doesn't mean we're the bad ones. If people rejected us in the past and are still rejecting us, we are not to be blame. You can't force what is not meant to be.

I want us to know that we're far way better than our past, the mistakes, the rejections, the abandonment, the terrible things done to us in the past and even now. We can be the best version of ourselves, if we stopped believing the lies of the past . We can take up that stage boldly if we don't allowed ourselves to stay locked up in the cage the past have put us in, abd we cab say to ourselves, yes we're better than this, and we can do this and we can do that

We don't have to hurt others because we've been hurt in the past. We're BETTER than that. Yes, keep believing in yourself. Keep fighting for that goal. Keep pushing through. Keep inspiring others. Keep believing in your dreams. Keep building and keep expanding. Keep fighting for the needy and keep defending the defenseless. You're making a huge difference even if you don't see that now. In due time, it will all come to make sense. Do you believe in yourself? Why not? Because I believe in each and everyone of you beautiful people on here. And yes, we're going to make the way a better place because we're powerful women who aren't afraid to speak out and fight for what is right. I believe in myself, and I believe in you guys some much.

WE CAN DO THIS!❤️






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